What will you do?
Whom will you do it with?
Where will you do it?
What are you going to do in this life? this involves career choice, how you plan to make money and the kind of service you bring to the world.
Whom will you spend your life with? This involves the choice of spouse, who you want to work for, and the friends you want to spend time with.
Where will you spend your life? This involve the physical location where you spend the bulk of your time, such as the country, city, and the neighborhood you will spend your days.
When figuring these questions out, which should be asked first? Where you are is perhaps the easiest question to change. If you are in Los Angelos but do not like the high taxes? Move to Miami. If you do not like the weather in upstate New York? Move to San Diego. If you do not like America move to France.
Some will say the person you spend life with is the most important question to start with. After all, if you mess up your choice of a partner everything else in life will be harder. That said, there is something to be said about knowing what you are doing in life before you become deeply connected with another person.
What you do is probably the most difficult question that most people have answering. That is because life can be fluid, and goals can change. You can be doing one thing and then decide to do something else.
Those who are more alive and who are making the biggest impact on planet earth know how to update and refocus their dreams as they mature, as life change, and as opportunities comes and go.
Instead of just asking what will I do, ask instead what more can I do? Always expand do not contract or pull back. Instead of just asking whom will I spend my life with? Ask whom else can I spend it with? I am not talking about polygamy, I am talking about adding friends.
Instead of just asking where will I do it, ask instead where else can I do it? Move beyond what is familiar there is a whole world out there to experience. Be bless and stay encourage.
